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THE KISSING ATTACK

eemiilythisremindsmeof:

fuckyeahkissing:

When you kiss someone - really kiss someone, and let yourself just fall completely into the moment - it effects all your senses.

Obviously you’ve got touching and tasting, they’re the reason you’re doing this. There’s that hovering second beforehand when you catch each other’s eye, and suddenly instinctively you just know it’s gonna happen, neither of you could explain what triggered it, but one of you will look at the other a certain way, and then you’ll just move towards each other, and then you’re being more intimate with each other than you ever have before. Aside from going down on someone, I’d argue kissing is the most intimate you can ever be with a person. You can have sex without even looking at them, without your body even being too close to theirs apart from the bits that matter; but kissing requires consistent facial contact. You can become aware of how you breathe, and how they breathe, and all the time they’re right there in front of you. You can run your fingers through their hair, keep them pulled against you, or just let yourself explore their body in a way that is not erotic, but curious and appreciative. You move slowly at first, because you’re wondering what the other person is going to be like, and then you find a rhythm together and you follow it. This is all subconscious - you’re not thinking anything at all.

So there’s tasting and touching, but everything else goes with it. A particularly nice perfume will engage your sense of smell, for example. Your sight completely enhances things no matter what your eyes are doing; if they’re open, you’re seeing this person just giving themselves to you, and if their eyes are open then your eyes will meet and you’ll connect with each other. If they’re closed, you don’t have any visual distractions, so you can dip into the experience more.

Most fascinating for me, and the reason I wrote this diary, is sound. If you have a really good kiss - someone who’s delicate and passionate at the same time, who you totally click with, who you don’t want to end it with and start kissing them again sooner after they’ve stopped - you don’t hear anything else. It’s like a little blanket has been wrapped around the both of you, tethering you together and keeping you protected from outside. It just seems so quiet.

I sometimes take my kisses with Becky for granted, because there’s no intrigue there, and what I mean by that is that if I go to kiss her, I know she’ll kiss me back (obviously, and vice versa). But I’ll still completely lose myself every time I feel her lips on mine because I love to be kissed, and I love when you’re with someone that way and you’re not distracted by anything but them.

I had a dream that I kissed an old friend of mine called Tasha, and had one of those block-out-the-sound kisses. Then, in the dream, I woke up and started to write a diary entry called ‘The Kissing Attack’, where I talked about how all the senses get affected. And so when I woke up for real, I couldn’t resist manifesting that ^_^

Alex from http://nerimon.diaryland.com/2013.html

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